continuation from '' something you call L-O-V-E''

Its been long since i write.. And all of a sudden I felt like writing again..Previously i wrote a post called something call love...

What is love to you?Love could be an undefined expression for someone...Love could be crazy for someone...Love is secret for someone...But to me..Love is WEIRD!! Love is something which you still don't really know the meaning..

That was from my previous post and i did mention at the end of the post i would talk about the guy who make me feel this weird, undefined, crazy, some called it faith and more...Which is widely known as something call love... Well yes... Been writing something for pass don't know when.... Hopefully this is a good one... So..

It was a normal day at college ...I was out for a break was talking to a friend of mine..And we were out of my friend's classroom..Then as usual i took a sneak peak in his class and i saw him.. ( All right people i know its like a typical story...just follow up alright) I quickly ask my friend '' who is he??''  My friend replied ''he?'' while doing something

'' Him!! the guy with specs and cap... white t-shirt'' while not moving my eyes away from him...
'' Oh!! him... a friend of mine... he is an international dude... very smart guy.. why?? 
'' Just asking... what is his name??'' asking my friend curiously  
'' m not sure of the full name...but i think its Viven''  said and open the door and introduced me...


And he introduced me to him...I blushed like hell!! Like seriously what have happen to me...Why m blushing?? What the hack..! Then i entered my class.. From the time i saw him till i get back i was disturbed... At that moment i said to myself what the F**k is wrong with me? I couldn't be in love... Seriously...Because i hardly know this guy.. Basically i don't even know him... Zero educated about him.... That day itself i search him in Facebook... Thanks to technology and social network call Facebook... I searched him in Facebook... Just to see my luck.. Everyone has Facebook... Like basically anyone on the planet of the earth... And if this guy don't have it he is a nerd.. Searching....Searching.. FOUND!! i was all excited... smiling widely... 

i text my friend saying that ''i found him'' my friend was like ''found?? who?? '' ''that guy that u just randomly without my permission introduce me today....'' ''oh! where??'' '' in Facebook'' ''oh okay...add him in and get on track''' And then i added him...

Then like each time i see him... I blush and i get shy.. Face turn red, butterflies in me and that would be the best day ever... hahaha.. *ya! the butterfly period* 

hmmmm... Then i was going out with him...He turn out to be a nice guy and so on.. During that period I was thinking to myself and imagining the beautiful fairy tale love story that we all use to have during young time... Prince and princess... You know... Then i put my friend into hell!! Made my friend to be close to him... So that i can so call come and see my friend but then m there to see him... And i also had a cousin of his as my friend.. Its funny to think what i have put this two people in... And finally i gave up with this two people and i get down in business by myself.... Told him by myself... Again.... That was in  Facebook.. Facebook is really connecting people... hehe.. I told him what i feel about him and he gave no response for it!! And again my friend and mostly his cousin got all sort of scolding and yelling from me just because he didn't respond to me... *Unfair right! i know... just need to release it*  

Semester break was on.. And my friend and me planned to go to this place called Port Dickson.. He was invited anyway... M not sure what happen there but m pretty sure i was not even trying because i totally gave up... Tried for like more then half a year and NO RESPONSE.... So just literally gave up... Haiz!!! After the trip... Uh'hu.... Here comes the part that i was like waiting.. Because i wanted an answer by the end of the year...So that i could decide my way.... Then he called... And he said


'' I feel like telling u everything'' 
'' Skip the crab and come to the point...Is it 100% or what??'' was on impatient 
'' Yes! it 100%.. i want to be with you''

I smiled widely and was jumping and looking at myself in the mirror and said '' you rock!! you are the best! here you princess ur prince charming... '' Wink at myself  and obviously he was still on the phone and i did that when i was silent.. you know those silent moment...Continue talking while blushing...

To wrap up my story... It could be or could not be a boring story.. End of the day i believe that this story is not all... This is just my beginning..Our beginning...And to talk about him... My friend would just say '' you don't want her to start''... hahaha....


He ... Is not a guy who takes me everywhere i want to go... Be cuddly... Romantic.. Flirtatious.... Showers me with lots of gifts... Greeting cards... Poems... Random quotes.. Beautiful good morning messages.. Call me like every hours of every second.. Be the first one to message me before i do.. Unbearable of separation of good night message  and so on.... BUT... He.. Showers me with his love and cuddle me with his care... Romantic in his own way... Being different in terms of flirting... And mornings are always beautiful when i wake up in the morning knowing that he is there to support me when m weak.. To share my happiness... To wipe off my tears when m crying... To lend his shoulder when m down.... To motivate me when i lost faith in me... Listens to me.... Most of all being a partner more then a boyfriend... And nights are always bearable when i close my eyes and hit the sack... Thinking that he love me in all possible way and he would do anything to continue  the journey with me to the future... Everyday when i wake up and till i get on bed life gets harder and harder... I'm just glad that i have someone like him to love and be loved back and help me through it...

So....Love is highly recommended...! Its beautiful but its fragile...So be careful... Don't let anyone to come in your way... A relation should be about you and him/her... Not about you, him/her and another person... Its doesn't work that way... 


The beginning... Thanks for reading my story...Will write something else tomorrow... Till then take care everyone... And keep tell the person you love '' i love you''... The most sweetest word that could give a smile on anyone's face...

 

Mum's 48th b'day....

19th November 2010...My brother and I wanted to celebrate mu's birthday..It suppose to be a surprise party but eventually she found out about it...Anyway, i have always thought that everything happen is life is a lesson...While Planning mum's birthday, it was all fun and joy...I personally did it because i wanted to show her that I love her and i also wanted to meet my fellow cousins...;) But...during the event something that i realize is that my mum...She laugh will all her hearts out...She had a mile long smile..Which i missed ever since dad passed away..She do smile..She do laugh...But something was different that day...When i asked her ''how was your 48th birthday party?''..She smiled and said, ''I'm very happy and she walked away''. At that very moment i felt blessed..Because of 10 years of hard work and pain she gone through, finally she deserved something good..Birthdays might be a small thing in ones life..But little that i believed that birthday is unforgettable day for you and your parents...Celebrating someone's birthday is some much fun and excitement..The smile on one's face..I have learn that in all my years of celebrating birthday to people that i know, i have earned lots of blessing..And mum loved her birthday...tears was rolling down my eyes when i saw her smiling and blowing off the candle...And i was so proud to be her daughter...

P.S: mum i love you so much and i wish you know how much you meant to me..!




love,your daughter,
Shamala Nair

Something you call L-O-V-E

What is love to you?Love could be an undefined expression for someone...Love could be crazy for someone...Love is secret for someone...But to me..Love is something which you still don't really know the meaning..We all love our family...Friends and also enemies at times...But when you are in love and learning how to see the imperfect person perfectly things will go on to be weird..Love is some moment that last forever..When you are reading this m pretty sure that you all are thinking this human here is so in love...hahahaha...basically i wish i find my prince charming and have a fairly tale wedding...hope things goes on happy..But one thing love is.....WEIRD...I mean how could you fall in love with someone that you might not know for a very long time...He or she might just run in your life in the middle and started to change something in you...Weird right...I hope someday i have that crazy feeling too..and yea! Hope my next post will be about him...And i wish to talk more about it...Everyday is a valentine's day to those who are madly in love..The crazy weird thing we all call, L-O-V-E...!

It has been a long time...

Hmmm...All of a sudden sitting by the side of my classroom door, i have realize that it has been long since i wrote something in my blog...Here I'm today to write something about what i have learn for pass few days...I have learn something that call ''Smile''...If you all are asking me..Shamala are you serious??Smile???What have you learn about that...And my answer will be yup..Smile...I have learn that smile a very powerful energy or whatever you all can call it..If someone smiles at you...M very sure that you will give them a very graceful smile..Smile also shows some positive energy towards one...When you smile you feel confident..Confident that the world is smiling back to you and all if going to turn out to be good..Smile not just build in confidence in you it also help to realize that problems is a part of life and it comes and go whenever it wants to...That problem shouldn't put your smile down...I have realize that and now m practising to smile to everyone i see in college and wish all my fellow college mates a good greets and also to the lecturer and my lifestyle in college has been change..Things turn out to be good and m happier now..So lets start SMILING!

how to ask a guy date out...???

Want more than anything else in the world to ask the cutest guy in the world out, but you melt when your near him? Everyone knows that it's never easy to do something like that, no matter how much experience you've had.

• Pick a guy that isn't taken. This is probably the most important part!! If you don't know if he is or not, you could ask someone to casually ask him or just go up and ask.
• Get to know that guy and see if you like him or not. 
• If you do but are barely able to talk to him ( let alone ask him out),make yourself known in his presence. Try finding out what things you have in common.. Join a club together, play a sport, or just talk about something
• Practice talking to him in the mirror. It may be weird but it will work trust me..
• Get up your guts and go say hi. Strike a conversation, anything, if you have similar interest
•  See how it goes when he is around you. If he likes you, then that is absolutely great. If he doesn't, well, he might be shy, but either way, you should still ask him out. 
• Ask him out. This is the hardest part because it takes bravery to go up to a guy who's been to your liking such a long time. And if you really really can't ask him out try telling him that you like him first because then there might be more chance that when you do ask him out that he'll say yes since he's had time to get used to the fact you like him. Some guys freak out at first, so that's why you sometimes get rejected by them!
• If you're too scared to ask a guy out that you like, try getting him to notice you. When he walks by you say hello or stare at him passionately to tell him something. If you think that's a bad idea then try finding out where he hangs out and walk by. Look at him and smile. Then talk to him a bit; get to know him. If he has friends that are girls ask them what he's like and then either go for a direct approach or ask him to a movie and say it's with him and some of your friends (that way it's not so awkward)
• If it's a boy that has a lot of friends around all the time or has a big mouth, you could get a trustworthy friend to go ask him for you. Or get a friend to go say there's a girl in (your class) that wants to go out with you; what girls in (your class) would you go out with? and then if he says your name, your friend could say, well it's (your name) so will you go out with her? 

 TIPS

• If you're playing the hinting game, be obvious! Guys don't realize you're hinting and flirting unless it's pretty obvious!
   
• try to find out if he likes you first before you ask him out. Otherwise you may get hurt. But, don't be pushy when you ask, that could make him not like you.   

• Flirt. Guys love it when you flirt plus it drops a hint in a subtle way.

• Make him laugh. They won't date you if you're really boring.

• Don't worry too much about being rejected, most guys generally won't say no, even if you're not considered popular. If he asks you about your motivations for asking him out, or some other vague question instead of actually answering, he most likely just wasn't expecting you to ask him out and is actually just playing for time so he can try to figure out how to say yes while simultaneously looking 'cool', just give him a few moments, do something to ease the tension like smiling (sincerely). He will most likely end up saying "Oh fine". Do not be discouraged, he has just failed to generate a cool response and has switched to the "Well I don't care very much, but I'll go anyways" attitude, he will warm up eventually.

• The most important thing to do IF he says no: Don't hold a grudge he'll sense your hostility and won't try to have a friendship. When you get home go for a cry and then write down your emotions. This will help you in so many ways. Even though he said no still try to keep things exactly the same before you asked him. He'll sense your confidence and this could start something. Keep the flirting to a normal status. He already know you like him don't push your fate. Keep your confidence people might start asking about your little mishap with him. Just shake off rude comments even if your spirit is a little hurt. Don't stop liking him just because of this. It's just one day!! If he does say yes, plan to go somewhere where there is a lot of people - Go somewhere like the park on your first date as this will make the guy think your nice and fun.

WARNING

• If he says no, you are probably too good for him anyways. He doesn't know whom he is messing with.

• If he says no, don't hold a grudge. that could make it so he never likes you.

• Don't ask him in front of friends since that will put pressure on him and he's most likely to say no in front of his friends!

• If he says maybe, don't get your hopes up too high because maybe he doesn't have the heart to say no or that he needs time to think about it properly. He probably doesn't want to make you feel bad.

• Start out with small things like slow dancing at school dances or partnering up for a school project.

• If he says no because he is taken, let him know you are still on a friendly status, just incase he has a fight with her, he'll think you are more supportive of him than she is and start to realise he likes you.

• If he says no, don't be too down. Maybe he's just too busy to have a girlfriend. Don't ask him why, because this will make him uncomfortable and NOBODY likes a girl who goes round asking lots of questions.

Weird people....Weird weddings...

 I have heard about people getting married to human beings..But getting married with animals?Gosh! Now thats not normal..Seriously..What do you get? Alright a wild imagination....Came back from work..just imagine your partner is a dog...You go to that fellow...Talk to him/her, express your felling, and etc...How would it react??Nothing! Really...M not joking...Then u need to cook two different type of foods, and so on..The important one,SEX!..What a life..Of course some tell me sex is not all..But that line applies when u get married to a human right??But animals...What do they know...Nonsense...Animals are either to keep it as a pet or to learn something about them..People are basically the one can think..Not like this...Here are a few that i read about...Anyhow,i takes a lot of courage to that as well..So,may god bless them...

[Got married with a 10-year-old female dog]

Selva Kumar married a 10-year-old female dog named Selvi to atone for stoning to death two dogs he found engaging in mating when he was a teenager. "After that my legs and hands got paralyzed and I lost hearing in one ear," Kumar said. The groom also said that he would take care of it until its death.

[Love at the 1st sight]

Sharon Tendler, who was the first person to marry a dolphin, said it was love at first sight with Cindy. They got married in the southern Israeli port of Eilat in 2006. Sharon kissed Cindy, whispered "I love you" in his blow hole, and dived into the water to give the dolphin a hug.

"It's not a perverted thing. I do love this dolphin. He's the love of my life. He will still play with all the other girls there," she said, of their prenuptial agreement. "I hope he has a lot of baby dolphins with the other dolphins. The more dolphins the better."

[Forced to marry a goat]

In February 2006, a Sudanese man was forced to take a goat as his "wife", after he was caught having sex with the animal. He was also ordered by the goat's owner, Mr Alifi to pay a dowry of 15,000 Sudanese dinars.

[Virtual girlfriend]

A Japanese man, who only wanted to be known as "Sal9000", had fallen in-love with computer powered character, Nene Anegaski and decided to marry her.
"Her character changes to my liking as we talk and travel to different places", said Sal.
This unique couple was married by civil wedding in a ceremony that had 40 guests in a town near Tokyo, Japan.
"I only want Nene right now, she's better than a human girl," Sal9000 told CNN

[Human-cat-marriage]

A German man unofficially married his asthmatic cat, Cecilia after the animal fell ill and vets told him it might not live much longer, Bild newspaper reported in March 2010.
Uwe Mitzscherlich, 39, paid an actress 300 euros (£260,$395) to officiate at the ceremony, as marrying an animal is illegal in Germany.
"Cecilia is such a trusting creature. We cuddle all the time and she has always slept in my bed," he said.

[Frog prince]

Two seven-year-old girls, from the remote Pallipudupet village in Tamil Nadu's Villupuram district were married off to frogs in January 2009. The ceremony, an annual feature during the Pongal festival, was said "to prevent the outbreak of mysterious diseases in the village''.

[boxing ring]

Newlyweds Natalya Karpovich, 31 and Nikolai Kibkalo, 40, married in a ring because they had met in one.
"We thought it would be very symbolic to have our wedding here," said Nikolai Kibkalo, 40, and his new wife Natalya Karpovich, 31.
According to BBC, the pair wore traditional wedding garments, but put on boxing gloves after the ceremony and exchanged mock blows.

me and the segi people...

 This one here is my first two friends in segi college...Both of them are elder to me..A kind of all my segi friend are elder to me..:D..We love snapping pictures, talk, drink and laugh out loud..We seriously talk nonsense..Hahaha... My Segi people are jojo,durga,devinaa,daniel,danny,suren,shaun and prasant...

my sweety pie-Devinaa..

Classmates for intercultural...

Danny..the don...hahaha..*bz eating*

Shaun..The happy boss...

Prasant-the joker...hahaha

Suren-The officer...

That me and Daniel...Daniel-the knowledge one...